This week in the Gifted And Talented Education discussion board, there was a post from a concerned mother whose 3rd grade son is going through an evaluation process at his school. The mother was told that her son is extrememly high in emotional intelligence and the school psychologist commented that she "has never seen anything like it inside a child". The boy also tested high average in language and verbal IQ, but his spacial intelligence was average, but his auitory memory skills show some weakness. The school is still going through the data but is very concerened about this findings and was asking for advice to what these findings indicate. The mother seems to have no background knowledge on the subject and the school seems not to have given her any information to what the tests results mean. As a teacher, I really do not think that this is the way to go about evaluating the student. I am not sure why the keep parents in the dark for what the school is actually looking for. Are they afraid if they mention the word "gifted" than if the test results do not show that the student is than the parent will throw a fit? Is it easier to test first and explain later? Obviously this mother is concerned and must not have gotten the information she needed from the school (otherwise, why would she be posting on a discussion board). The mother herself has not researched the topic and even if her child is found to be gifted, does not know his rights at school.
So what is the solution to this mother's predicament? EDUCATION! Yes, the school should offer her more information during the evaluation process but by visiting a few gifted websites (NAGC, Hoagies' Gifted) or researching at the library, the mother could easily find some information that would explain to her the asynchrony found in gifted students and she would reailze that her child does not need to be gifted "across the board". Schools and parents have to work together, be educated on the characteristics of gifted, and must cooperate for the best interest of the child.